Wassup HWISS,
I just spent nearly two hours trying to put my thoughts on paper -- but couldn't seem to find the right words to explain how I feel. I don't know WHY I feel this way, but I do know THAT I feel this way. Here goes everything:
You see --- I believe that it is fate that ultimately brings people together/pulls people apart. Everyone comes in/out of your life for a reason. They all serve a specific purpose in your life whether you are satisfied with the consequences or not.
In the cases where relationships go wrong, it’s important not to focus on WHY a relationship didn’t work, but to accept THAT a relationship didn’t work. You get the difference?
Worrying about why a relationship didn’t work out can lead to countless hours/days/weeks -- and hopefully not -- months of stress. Accepting THAT a relationship didn’t work means realizing that no matter how hard we/the other person tries, feelings can not be FORCED; it has to be a mutual connection that really makes a relationship work.
We spend our whole lives LOOKING for the “right person,” but are often disappointed when things go wrong.
What I’m trying to say is, “Stop LOOKING for love to happen and LET love happen.”
Relax… let things flow and let fate take its course. Have fun, enjoy yourself and if everything works out, know that there is a reason for it --- the challenging part is figuring out what that reason is.
Who knows – the reason might be right under your nose ;)
Where do you stand?
The Open Relationship
2 years ago
1 comment:
i agree with you. i think things work out in a relationship because they just do. but i think we are too selfish as individuals to come out of our own ways to be open to fixing things about ourselves to make things work, thus we end up breaking up. maybe if we just let go a little bit, we may have more success in love...
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