Is (good) sex enough of a reason to stay in a relationship?

*Topic*
People stay in relationships for many reasons: love/family (ideal reasons), money, a place to live and (to no surprise) sex.

Although it’s possible to have a relationship without sex, people in relationships seem to have a better connection when sex is involved…especially if it’s good. In fact, sometimes the sex so good, it's the only thing that seems to hold some relationships together.

You’ve probably heard it before (or experienced it yourself): “I don’t want to leave ____ because the sex is sooooooo good!”

Not saying that the topic in question is wrong -- but is it necessarily right?

*Question*
“Is (good) sex enough of a reason to stay in a relationship?”

*5 Questions to consider*
“Would it still be a “relationship” it was just based on sex?”
“What could be some of the emotional consequences (if any)?”
“What could be some of the emotional benefits (if any)?”
“If so, would you ever let your bf/gf know that their sex is the only reason why you’re around?”
“Can you not find good sex somewhere else?”

Here's Where I Stand...
Relationships should encompass more than just sex. If one person is "staying" with someone just based on sex -- then that's exactly what it is: sex with someone you know (not a relationship).

Some people are naive to the idea that their bf/gf is with them only because of sex, but others are smart enough to figure it out and find love elsewhere. Depending on one's personal experiences, good sex could be easy/hard to find -- but it's definitely possible to find it elsewhere -- especially if the relationship is emotionally draining.

Still...
I think that it all depends on what someone is looking for when they are in a relationship. If the only reason he/she is in a relationship because they want someone to be exclusively sexually involved with, then I'd say "It's all good." I would HOPE, however, that the other person involved feels the same way.

Where do you stand?

Readers Responses:

1. As far as emotional consequences, I think depending on the length of the sex relationship would determine the emotional consequences IF ANY...as far as benefits, some women look at it as them feeling wanted...which may be where the catching feelings part comes in, and that physical satisfaction begins to confuse emotions...
2. I've told so many females they're dumb for staying with a dude that they're going through so many problems with, just because they feel they won't find sex as good as his if they leave. So, they stay and complain about this and that and say oh, but the sex is good. I'll never agree to them staying, I've never agreed to a female staying with me or vice versa for that reason. Does/has it happened? Of course lol. But, it's basically a temporary situation until it dies out.
3. Sex can help a relationship evolve from just friends, something casual, or if it's a new relationship. But, I don't think it can help sustain one. It'll keep you around for a while, be it a short or long while, but ultimately someone will leave after feeling like they "need more".
4. Sex will never take the place of love and the connection your heart has with a person who truly cares about you for you. Not how far you can arch your back on the reverse cowgirl or the fact that you can actually swing from the ceiling fan without breaking it can keep a connection going but who will be that flexible in the yrs to come??
5. I've seen sex keep ppl together from days to actually years, but it's really a damn shame when asked what are some of the best memories together and a person can give you a periodic table of sex positions but they can't give you at least one time he or she cooked dinner, treated their partner to a movie, met their partners family or just spent quality time together.
6. It all comes down to a real relationship with some nice ASSets that can last a lifetime, but if you make that ASSet the most important thing in a relationship, prepare to land on your ASS one day. ...that is all....
7. No, No, and NO. I disagree with you... A relationship CAN NOT be sustained without a pleasurable sex life (sex is quite important), but in the same light, great sex CAN NOT sustain a failing relationship.
8. Staying in a relationship solely for sexual reasons is abusive to the soul... thats a clear emotional rollercoaster... 95% of the time you'll be unhappy... 5% of the time in euphoric bliss.
9. I'm pretty much a firm believer that staying in a relationship for ANY reason other than just wanting to be with that person (ultimately LOVE) is bound to result in negativity.
10. Overall, if you have a strong emotional attachment to a person, you can make the sex good. You can teach your partner what you like to make it better and it'll be GREAT because you already have that emotional connection. But you cannot teach your sex partner to be a great partner emotionally because that can't be taught.

These and more in the comments section. Where do you stand?

On the Corner: Discussing how anyone wearing Obama paraphernalia will be turned away from voting on election day

What's good everyone? Welcome to “On the Corner!”

In this series, I will discuss things unrelated to our normal topics, but close enough to keep your thoughts flowing.

I wanted to come to you all this evening to discuss an email I received today. In fact – I received it from three separate parties. Some of you may have received it as well.

It is an email warning Obama supporters not to wear any Obama paraphernalia to vote or they will be turned away.

The email reads:

PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE ADVISE EVERYONE YOU KNOW THAT THEY ABSOLUTELY CAN NOT GO TO THE POLLS WEARING ANY OBAMA SHIRTS, PINS OR HATS, IT IS AGAINST THE LAW AND WILL BE GROUNDS TO HAVE THE POLLING OFFICIALS TO TURN YOU AWAY.

THAT IS CONSIDERED CAMPAIGNING AND NO ONE CAN CAMPAIGN WITHIN X AMOUNT OF FEET TO THE POLLS. THEY ARE BANKING ON US BEING EXCITED AND NOT BEING AWARE OF THIS LONG STANDING LAW THAT YOU CAN BET WILL BE ENFORCED THIS YEAR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

THEY ARE BANKING THAT IF YOU ARE TURNED AWAY YOU WILL NOT GO HOME AND
CHANGE YOUR CLOTHES. PLEASE JUST DON'T WEAR OBAMA GEAR OF ANY SORTS TO THE POLLS!!

PLEASE SHARE THIS INFORMATION, OH AND FOR THOSE OF YOU WHO WERE ALREADY AWARE THIS WAS NOT MEANT TO INSULT YOUR INTELLIGENCE.

JUST TRYING TO COVER ALL GROUNDS.

Here’s Where I Stand…
I am glad that this message is being passed around, but I can’t help but wonder if it is legit or another scare tactic. I did some research and it has been posted in blogs all around the Internet, and no one seems to know the true source of the email.

I know that signs can’t be placed within a certain amount of feet of a polling place, but, I must admit that I am unaware of the any clothing rules.

As far as I’m concerned (correct me if I’m wrong), one should be able to wear whatever they want to the polls. However, if the law IS true, then I have no choice but to back down: rules are rules. Perhaps it’s better to be safe than sorry.

Still…
I can’t help but wonder who created this email and why it seems to be targeted toward Obama supporters.

Regardless of which party someone decides to support, America will experience history in the making. As such, there is a reason for everyone to be excited.

Should we even assume that the same email is being forwarded to McCain/Palin supporters? If not, why?

Stand with me “On the Corner” and throw in your two cents.

Where do you stand?

Can a relationship with a friend of the opposite sex be strictly platonic?

*Topic*
True -- the attraction may be there -- but nowadays, it seems pretty common: People can be best/good friends of the opposite sex.

While some people have grown to accept it, there is still the belief that it is impossible for men and women to be good friends without crossing the barriers.

Believe it or not, it can cause more drama than you know.

For example:
If you’re not in a relationship:
People may assume that you and your best/good friend are together.
Ladies may think you are seeing too many women to take you serious; Men may think you’re a little too “friendly” with other guys to take you serious.

If you’re in a relationship:
Your bf/gf may not approve of the relationship you have with your best friend.
He/she may get extremely jealous of the relationship that you two have.
He/she may cause a rift between you and your best friend.

Bottom line – this is a situation that could possibly change a friendship/relationship forever. Where do you stand?

Question
“Can a relationship with a friend of the opposite sex be strictly platonic?”

5 Questions to consider
“What problems can rise in having a best/good friend of the opposite?”
“What benefits are there?
“Should those friendships cease when you/your bf/gf get into a relationship?”
“Do you trust yourself/your friend not to cross that border?”/“Do you trust your bf/gf or his/her friends?”
"Additional Question: "Considering other lifestyles, can the same be said for friendships of the same sex?"

Here's where I stand...
I think it's very possible to have a strictly platonic relationship with someone of the opposite sex. Sure problems can arise, but I think that there are many benefits. For one, if you need advice, your friend of the opposite sex can help you out in many ways. Socially, it's just cool to have a girl/guy to go out with sometime, whether it be dinner, movies, to the club, etc.

There's no reason why friendships should cease because your bf/gf doesn't approve. I've had to suffer the consequences of a situation because some girl's bf didn't approve -- and the relationship didn't even last.

Still...
Ultimately it comes down to "trust." If you can trust yourself and your friend not to cross that border, then you shouldn't have any problem. And if you're on the other side, if you can trust your bf/gf and their friends, then you shouldn't have any problem.

Where do you stand?

Readers Responses:

1. “All of the things you stated in your examples have come true and even though it sucks, I would not forfeit our friendship”
2. “Why would you even go there? A friend is a friend.”
3. “I think it’s possible. But I also think that someone’s boyfriend or girlfriend might consider you a threat. That’s when the drama starts.”
4. “Nope lol. It can be, but unless they whole-heartedly turn you off, you'll take it if they offered you a piece.”
5. “Their sex should make no more of a difference than their race.”
6. “As a lesbian, I think it’s the complete opposite. Girls would rather that I have a male best friend than a female. That’s just my take on it.”
7. “Hell to the NO! If my "friend" has accomplished friendship with me plus he's there for me whenever i need him..etc.. then i should be looking at him and wondering why i'm not WITH him.”
8. “I don't have any guy friends because I know how to cook, clean, listen, balance a check book, shut the hell up, support and pray..etc. any man with good sense is not trying to limit me to friendship.”
9. “No the friendship should not cease because you get into a relationship w/ someone. However, depending on where life takes you sometimes it does.”
10. “We put men in the friend category when sometimes the "friend" treats you better than your man.”

Readers Wanna Know: Cheating; is it in our genes?

Today’s topic comes from A. Warren, one of my top idea contributors.

She found a recent study which states, cheating is in a man’s genes.(Look it up, there are some stories out there). She doesn’t agree, but she wants to know where people stand on this issue. Do you agree that cheating is in a man’s genes? Everybody cheats -- so would it be the same for women?

Before I let you know where I stand, I’ll let you read the note for yourself:

A. Warren says:
“According to recent studies, it would appear that men cheat because it's...well, it's in their genes, as if men don't come up with enough excuses to be DOGS!!! When I received wind of this news I had to find out what other women, or men for that matter thought about the issue. So, feel free to leave your honest thoughts and opinions! And just to get the ball rollin, I'll be the first to offer my opinion!

I personally believe that EVERY man has some DOG in him! Yes they do! And some women, but mostly men. Now, it's up to you as to at you want to do with that DOG; you can A) Unleash it or B) Put the DOG to sleep! Most men just choose to unleash it! Please don't get me wrong; I am in no way, shape, or form sayin that ALL MEN ARE DOGS!!! I know that there are about 10 good ones out there SOMEWHERE!! The question at hand is, "is it in their genes or not?" NO!! Men cheat because they WANT to, or because they just refuse to maintain some self control and keep their little thang in their pants! Cheatin isn't something that you can't control it like tourettes or mental retardation. If we're goin to be so bold as to say that cheating is in their genes then so is LYING!! And as I stated before, women cheat JUST like men do, so can we do a study to prove that cheating is in womens' genes as well as men?!

That's my two cents and a couple of dollars as well! Please offer your pennies, nickles, dimes, or Andrew Jackson's for that matter! I'm quite eager to hear other's thoughts! Don't be shy!”

*Feel free to contact A. Warren directly at her MySpace page, linked at the top.

Here's Where I Stand...

I find it funny how women say "MOST men this" or "MOST men that". Not saying that this is NOT true, but it's very easy to generalize something based on a few personal experiences.

Statistics always have a margin of error --- It's a possibility that most men interviewed in the survey have cheated before, but there could have ALSO been the possibility that the majority of men interviewed did NOT cheat before. Results will ALWAYS vary.

On the topic, I agree with you -- cheating, just like being honest or lying, is a decision that everyone has to make. Saying that cheating is in the genes, is like saying stealing, fighting or grocery shopping is in the genes lol. It's pretty simple -- You can't fight your feelings, but you CAN fight your actions. By that -- the desire to cheat is one thing, but the actual action is totally a decision that someone has made.

Still...

The proof is right there in the pudding (and other studies). Maybe it's true that our genetic makeup contributes to the weakness of our self control.

Where do you stand?

Readers Responses

1. “Sometimes it seems as if it got a mind of its own ”
2. “Well I like to hope that cheating is not in a man's DNA. However, it is hard for me to think like that at times when almost every relationship I have been in has ended up with the same conclusion. Me being extremely loyal and faithful and the man doing whatever he likes.”
3. “I wish men would stop saying that to give them clearance to cheat and women need to stop saying it to excuse the men who cheat. God gave man free will. Cheating is a choice that some make.”
4. “I believe all women and men have those thoughts of cheating. Some act on them, some don't depending on the type of person they are."
5. “I remember reading that men are more liable to cheat simply because their ultimate goal is to spread their seed.”
6. “Science suggests it may be inherited in a male as a result of some primordial instinct but men can be rational human beings. It’s as simple as controlling an urge. Sure, a married woman can look at a man and think "Oh, he's gorgeous" but has sense enough to control her feelings. The same can be applied to a man. There is no excuse. Adults know better.”
7. “It runs in my family!!! Lmao”
8. “There are cultural factors that should be taken into consideration when having this discussion. The standards our society holds for men need to be higher; maybe then the behavior will change.”
9. “It’s just a matter of how you were raised or influenced. Some men were encouraged to cheat as they were growing up and some have different reason but it’s not part of genes, but more of are environment.”
10. “It starts and ends with a personal choice. A spin on it - also nobody can force you into cheating. No matter what another person does, if you can't handle it LEAVE don't cheat

P.S. Please be sure to contact me if you have any videos/photos/songs/ideas/situations that you would like me to cover!

Readers Wanna Know: My Take on Little Kids Doing Adult Dances

What's good everyone? Welcome to the first of the mini-series titled, “Readers Wanna Know!”

In this series, readers will suggest topics for me to cover on HWISS. Topics will and can be serious/funny/crazy azz hell. So yes, PLEASE email me your thoughts and ideas on situations/topics/videos/songs – whatever you’d like!

Today’s Topic: “Readers Wanna Know Where I Stand on Kids Who Dance Like Adults”

Today’s topic comes from one my ACE researchers, I.N.K.

It is a video of little children (ages 6-7) dancing at somebody’s birthday party.
Cute huh? I’m not even gonna’ front – I laughed my azz off! But before I let you know where I stand, I’ll let you see the video for yourself:



Here's Where I Stand...
When I first saw this video, I wanted to snatch those two little kids up and beat their azzes!

Who taught them how to dance like that? At times like this, I have no choice but to blame the parents. I mean -- that little girl was doing ALL types of positions on that little boy (smh) -- and she wasn't shy either! What's worse is that the parents and adults in the background are cheering these little goblins on! Not acceptable -- at ALL!

How do you prevent this? It's as simple as turning the channel from music videos to cartoons, or better yet, giving their simple azzes a book to read! I hope that those children put as much effort into their school work as they do learning those dances!

Still...
That video definitely made me laugh -- then cry -- then laugh again lol. You couldn't tell those kids NOTHING! -- And that's where I stand!

Where you do stand on kids who dance like adults?

Readers' Responses:

1. “LOL -- Somebody get these damn kids!”
2. “We wonder why men don't respect black women (or any for that matter) this is why. It is constantly and consistently ingrained in minds of men that women are nothing more than sexual objects.”
3. “OMG!!! I would beat her asssssssssss!!!
4. “If we begin to set better examples for the future of American, then perhaps America's future would be just a lil bit better.”
5. “This is a HOT AZZ MESS!!!!”
6. “Personally, I don't see the comedy that had you doubling over with laughter.”
7. “As a mother to a four year old girl I must say that this video both disgust AND saddens me.”
8. “If each year the generations get worse... how much worse will the generation after them be?!!”
9. “Not for nothing but this is why overall we haven't made it further than we should have. Cause we got some ignorant, simple people holdin' us back!”
10. “What makes it worse....there were adults cheering the kids on.”

P.S. Please be sure to contact me if you have any videos/photos/songs/ideas/situations that you would like me to cover!

Is it possible to have the benefits of a relationship without being in one?

*Topic*
Let’s face it – no one WANTS to be alone, but it’s interesting to see how many people jump into “relationships" just to be in one.

But is it really necessary?

Nowadays, people who are “dating," enjoy the same benefits as people in relationships including (but not limited to) going out, cuddling, laughing, having serious convos, smashing (lol)---

But there are some people who would disagree. Being in a “relationship” includes (but is not limited to) deeper emotional involvement, exclusiveness, and a stronger possibility of a long-term commitment.


*Question*

Is it possible to have the BENEFITS of a relationship without being in one?

*5 Questions to consider*
How do you define, “relationship”?
How important is it that titles are established in dating/relationships?
Can you be committed to someone WITHOUT being in a relationship?
Would you get into a relationship that you KNOW isn’t going to last?
Can you be in a relationship without being in love?


Here's Where I Stand...

Before I even answer that question, I must say that a "relationship" (in my opinion) is something that should last forever. Sure relationships are all fun and games when we're younger, but as we get older, the game gets old. As such, I do not take the relationship title lightly.


I'd like to say that I believe it is very possible to have the same benefits of a relationship without being in one. I feel like one can happily live in the moment with the person that makes him/her happy. People should be able to date who they want and when they want, without signing their names on a dotted line. Dating dismisses one from the "obligations" that he/she would have in a relationship (calling everyday, being exclusive, etc). Don't get me wrong, I also believe that one can ALSO be exclusive when dating -- but it's not required. If one chooses to be exclusive for the time being -- so be it, but he/she should never get into a relationship that he/she didn't think would last.


Still...

It's something about the relationship title that makes everything seem more "secure." I feel a lot of people don't get into relationships because they don't want the unnecessary drama, but the same can be said for people in relationships. You get what I'm saying? I believe that being in a relationship could lead to less "trust issues," which is a level of trust that can not be achieved when people are just "dating."


Whatever -- I'm done talking lol. Where Do You Stand?


Top Reader Comments:

1. “I think real relationships begin when there is no title or commitment
2. “My mother always told me "who will take the whole cow when they can get the milk for free?"
3. “I think its the maturity of the people -- like think of people who never got married but live together for 30 years and are together
4. “WOMEN...they need to have a title....for the sake of having one and half the time don’t even know why they like who they are with”
5. “Well... I think its a different level of respect and companionship that comes with being in a relationship that u cant get from just dating”
6. “Dating to me is just convenient sex… what else really comes out of it”
7. “If there wasn’t a difference, why would there even be a such thing as relationships?”
8. “Yes it is possible for people to be in a relationship without falling in love just as if you’re in love when you’re not in a relationship. It depends on what the person is looking for.”
9. “I think people are too caught up not trying to have a title that they do not understand that they are in a relationship in many instances. Though I would hope that your relationship or whatever you want to call it has some monogamy, honesty, and conversation (especially if one of the parties chooses to sleep with someone else).”
10. “Hiding behind the dating front lets people enjoy the fun parts of the relationship without any serious work and commitment.”

Is it okay to pursue your friend's crush/ex?

*Situation*
The rule goes, “You CAN’T date your friend’s crush/ex.” Why? Because dating a friend’s crush/ex leads to jealousy, drama and the possibility of a lost friendship.

It may be easy for you, especially if you don’t like your friend’s crush/ex.
However, that’s not always the case: You meet your friend’s crush/ex and you two REALLY hit it off. The attraction is there, and so is the mental/emotional connection. Clearly, your friend’s crush/ex is into you and would like to see how far you two could go.

*Question*

Is it okay to pursue your friend's crush/ex?

Here's where I stand:

This is a tricky question because friendships are very important and no one should come in between them. At first thought, I would say the answer is "no". Regardless of whether I was feeling/still feeling the person or not, I know that I would be highly upset if one of my friends did it to me, so I know I wouldn't do it to them.

Still:

I think that there is an exception to the rule (don't judge me lol) --- I feel that if you are truly feeling someone (for a reason separate from physical attraction), then you should pursue it. I'm speaking on a more serious context in this case. If you LOVE someone, why can't you pursue them? Do you miss out on the chance to be with the "possible" love of your life because you don't want to hurt your friend's feelings?

Again, it's a touchy subject, but I think that this goes on a case-by-case scenario. Your thoughts?

Top Reader comments:

1) "When it comes to matters of the heart, that is not much than can be controlled. However, when it comes to matters of the mind you are your own captain."

2) "It depends on how you met the person. If you and your friend meet them together, and she's feeling you more, you should pursue it."

3) "You have to ask yourself what type of friend you are to that person. I mean if it's a best friend vs just a friend, it makes a difference."

4) "I wouldn't be happy with it, but if my ex and my friend came up to me and were honest about their feelings, I would respect it. I'm really big on honesty."

5) "My friend's feelings are 90% of my decision, and my character is 10% of the decision. I wouldn't do it -- it's just who I am."

6) "You just have to ask yourself is it truly worth risking a friendship over? If the answer is yes, then by all means go for it, but be fully aware of the consequences of your actions."

7) " It may not have worked out between the original two players but they have enough love for one another that they truly wish happiness for each other - even if that is with a friend."

8) " If you care about your friend you should let them know what the situation is and how you are feeling about that person."

9) "Love is love..regardless of how it comes about...we have no control over who we are attracted to or not...I mostly comes down to the morals and relationships you have with those you consider your friends...AND the maturity level of people."

10) "I'd try to avoid the situation at all costs."

11) "If it's your friend's ex -- they're off limits, if it's just a crush, then it's fair game."

Here's Where I Stand...Still

*Where do you stand on certain situations? Be careful, your next decision may be one of the most important ones you ever make!*

Welcome :)

What's good everybody? Welcome to my blog! Yea -- I know, it's still in the beginning stages, but just hold tight for a while -- in a few weeks it should really take off. To get things started, I wanted to provide some background about the blog.

Reason behind the blog:

I decided to create this blog to express my thoughts (as well as others') about everyday situations we may face in relationships, work, personal lives, etc. I want to expose people to situations that may/may not be a part of their own personal lives, but may effect the lives of family, friends, associates or whomever surrounds them. I want people to ask themselves, "If this happens to me, where would I stand?"

Often, we're at points where we have no idea what to do, so we seek advice from others in hopes of being pointed in the "right" direction. While there's nothing wrong with that -- it is very important that we THINK about every decision before we make it. Very seldom are there replays in life's situations -- so whatever decisions we make, we need to stand by it.

The end-goal:

I hope to create an open forum for readers to provide their insights and/or experiences on certain situations.

Here's Where I Stand...Still....

You like the title? Yea -- it's tight, right? LOL

To me, the phrase, "Here's where I stand...still..." can mean two things:

1) This is where I strongly stand on the situation, and there is nothing that can be said or done to make me change my mind.

2) This is where I stand on the situation, but there still may be another solution/option/opinion that I have not yet considered.

As such, each blog entry will present two sides: "Here's Where I Stand," will present my point of view, and "Still," will feature others'.

So this is how it goes:

• Early in the day, I will post a question on various social networks, asking for thoughts and opinions
• Later on in the day, when I write my blog, I will include comments and quotes from readers to offer a myriad of opinions.
• I will only post if I feel the need to. Either I will have a situation I'd like to discuss, or someone will bring up a topic for discussion.

Anywayz, thanks for coming through! While you're here, checkout the page (for what it is lol)

• To the left, I have links to a few blogs of a few associates and "another useless fact," that will change every time you click on the page.
• The bottom of the page has a few headlines from CNN and a brief "glance" into my life. LOL -- some of you may find yourselves in these pictures so be sure to keep an eye out.

And that's where I stand! Stay tuned for the first post!
~T.H.

Technorati Profile

Another year...

Pic Caption: What's left after my co-workers "surprised" me with a cake and card. I actually didn't want to touch the cake. It looked rather nice.

Before I write my first official entry in HWISS, just let me say that I have turned 24 years old today.

YES!!! I am blessed to have lived, learned, laughed and loved for another year. Sure life seemed hard at times, but I was surrounded by family, my ACEs, fraternity and other positive people to help get me through.

I will be the FIRST to say that I did not get to where I am by myself. Someone along the road offered a smile or helpful advice to make my journey a bit more pleasant.

Okay --- so I'm 24 now, and I am still at a point in my life where I am examining the past and present to determine how it will effect my future. If you know me, you'd say to yourself, "Oh boy -- here he go again!" LOL --- But it's true. I have been at this point for a while and as long as I live, I will continue to reflect on my life in the past, the present and what I need to do to POSITIVELY effect my future. It ALWAYS starts with a plan.

So the common question of the day is --- "What are your plans for your bday/bday weekend?"
And the answer will be --- "To enjoy it!"

Here's where I stand...
I plan ANYTHING and EVERYTHING if necessary, but I've never planned anything around my bday. I guess it's because I rather enjoy it for the randomness of it all, than to be disappointed by something that doesn't go as planned.

I also feel that my birthday should be shared with people that I care about. I would rather be surrounded by a group of 5 real people, than 50 fake people. You feel me?

Still...
There is nothing wrong with throwing a party here and there, and in fact --- it MAY be done for the big 25 next year! *Mark your calendars*

Bottom line is --- birthdays should be enjoyed however the individual chooses to enjoy them. I spent most of the night working until the wee hours of the morning just to enjoy my day. Now since I have the rest of the day off --- I'm going to do whatever it takes to enjoy it!!! Nothing more, nothing less.

Aight -- my 10 minutes is up -- but that's where I stand!

Stay tuned for the official post!